My clients tell me all the time, “I don’t believe I can have it all.”
Have you said this too?
Usually, it's because pain lingers. You've been hurt by relationships, friendships, and maybe even yourself.
Perhaps it still stings when you think of how things ended with your ex. Or you can't believe your partner talked to you the way he did that one time. Maybe you are really upset with yourself for staying in a relationship for too long and wasting time. When we hold on to all of this, we can't see the future, or the way to get to it.
Maybe you are clear on the facts of what you’d like in their life -- a husband, children, a more successful career, a house -- but a bunch of facts combined do not make a vision.
YES, you deserve a man who makes you laugh, someone who feels safe, a partner who is connected to his family and yours. But that’s the surface, it’s not the big vision to have and hold.
Do you know what you want you want and exactly how to get it, love?
Without a vision, we settle.
We cannot have everything we desire if we can’t envision it.
And that includes me. It includes every woman in a relationship, not just those who are single. No matter where you are in your love life journey, lacking a vision means you're at risk for disconnecting with your love life, and yourself.
Reactivate the dreamer in you.
Have your dreams become small, love?
It's easy for us to lose touch with our dreamer. We tell ourselves such damaging things every day. We have experiences that make us think we're shooting too high. We lose our grasp on what's possible. We see evidence that we can't have everything so we begin to believe that dreaming is silly.
But truly, that's where the relationship you want begins: with you.
What gets in the way: all the ways we've been hurt. It's time to move release it, move past it, and embrace your bright, loving future that awaits. I learned this first hand recently.
Real talk: This year I realized there were a lot of ways I was settling in my marriage.
And it wasn’t his fault.
I say that because I spent a lot of time blaming him. Maybe you've done this too ... blamed everyone else. Your date. Your husband. It could even be your girlfriends for not being supportive.
Settling was something I was allowing into my life. I stopped seeing the vision and speaking my truth. I hadn’t set clear boundaries for what was ok with me and what wasn’t. When my husband did things I wasn’t ok with, I stayed silent because speaking up seemed scary -- the reaction was unknown. And I didn’t fully communicate my desires.
I was disconnected from what I wanted for myself, so how were either of us to know where to go in our relationship?
I let Thomas and I float along in our marriage without a real direction.
What happened is we drifted away from each other. The further we got, the more scared we both became. The current got stronger. What began as a gentle drifting progressed into drowning in rapids. We got further and further away from each other. Inside I was screaming and crying, reaching my arm out desperately but unable to touch him.
When we're focused on surviving, we stop thriving.
When I got crystal clear on my vision,
I created a series of visioning techniques just for myself, and meditated on the vision I created every day. One day, when I was tested, I stood for my vision in a bold way. It’s the day my life changed, the day my marriage reignited in the best of ways.
Now, Thomas and I have a vulnerable, loving, trusting relationship.
Six months ago, none of that existed. We are still married today simply because I had a crystal clear vision ... and I had the strength to truly become my vision in reality. Whether you are in a relationship or not, you can create your future, too.
Do you know what you want and exactly how to get it, love?
Introducing Abundant Love Live, a weekend workshop for women who are ready to fully embrace love in their lives.
Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this is a sacred weekend for you to breakthrough your love blocks and create soul-level transformation. You’ll release your deepest fears and past pain, see your vision for the future, and learn the exact steps you need to take to move confidently towards it.
Join us Oct 19-21 in LOS ANGELES at The Riveter in west la.
Here's The Process:
To have something different, we have to release what was and is.
Maybe you're holding on to anger from a breakup or anger at yourself. Perhaps you’re feeling chronically hopeless because you’ve never had a boyfriend. Or maybe there is sadness for allowing your partner to disrespect you.
At Abundant Love Live, you’ll heal your heart and release all the pain it feels to create new space for deep love.
Once you’ve let go, there will be an abundance of space in your heart. What do you want to let in?
Often, when we create any sort of vision, we think about it. But rather, it’s more powerful to get out of our heads and feel. At Abundant Love Live, that is our focus. Using the exact processes I used to repair my own heart and marriage, you’ll get in touch with your deepest desires and experience your vision for your love life.
Once you see your vision, there is a need to move forward differently in your life. The approach you've had in your love life won’t support this new vision. So you’ll explore what will now.
How, today, can you choose differently?
It’s one thing to see your vision. It’s another to choose it.
You’ll create a step-by-step inspired action plan to move confidently towards your vision so you can have it … and SOON.
The stage is set for transformation.
the riveter. MARINA DEL RAY, los angeles, ca
Abundant Love Live isn’t a lecture series with speakers and panels. It is an experiential workshop where you’ll be guided through one-of-a-kind processes that will create heart-opening breakthroughs. You’ll let go of the pain, the baggage, and the weight you’ve felt in your love life, so you are set up to create anything you desire.
100 powerful, big-hearted women will join you. Because you're not alone. It's so often on our journeys that we isolate. But not this weekend. You will receive an abundance of connection and acceptance.
This all happens at The Riveter, a beautiful coworking and event space in Marina del Ray that empowers women to create powerfully in their lives. And you'll be about 10 minutes from the beach!
Our Schedule and Your Travel
friday, october 19: 6pm-10pm
saturday, october 20: 10am-7pm
sunday, october 21: 10am-7pm
If you are traveling into Los Angeles from out of town, we suggest you fly into Los Angeles International Airport (LAX).
For out-of-towners, we have reserved a discounted room block at Hotel MdR Marina del Ray -- a Doubletree by Hilton. Click here to book your room now. Our special rate is available until September 28, 2018. This property is a half mile from the beautiful marina, steps from restaurants and shops, and only a five-minute walk to The Riveter where the event will take place. Free parking and WiFi is included.
Early-bird tickets are only $197.
I’m purposefully keeping this event as affordable as possible for you because ...
You deserve to have everything you desire.
You deserve to heal.
You deserve to create a love life that makes you swoon every day.
You deserve to have a community of women who will lift you up.
You’re not alone.
If this is an experience you desire, you get to have it.
Tickets will increase to $399 soon ... and there are only 100 tickets. Get yours soon because it will sell out.
It's time, love. Your future awaits.
How much longer will you let life just happen to you? I waited two years to re-engage my vision, two years to have my dream.
Let's not let it be that long for you. Join us at Abundant Love Live now.